The Wedding Business Shanghai

As Sabrina discussed in her article yesterday, this lunar year is of a type that only occurs once per 200 years (roughly), and as such is a great luck year to be married.

To take advantage of this good luck, the superstitious Chinese are getting married in droves, and as you would imagine, the wedding industry is in absolute boom time!

Weddings are done differently here to the west. As oppossed to getting everything done on a single day as we do in the west, the Chinese (or at least the Shanghainese) do it in 3 distinctly seperate stages, and they don't necessarily get done in any order.

The three stages are:

1. The certification
2. The photos
3. The dinner

You may notice that there is no ceremony. Quite literally, the wedding is when the certificate (issued in a non descript government office) is chopped by the official at the Ministry of Civil Affairs. No ceremony, no friends & family, no pretty dresses, no flowers - just the 2 of you and the ministry official (and his chop).

The happy couple will generally get wedding photos taken before the dinner. This is where they get the chance to dress up and wear the white wedding dress and the tuxedo. Some photos are taken outside, but many are taken inside studios.

The well known Shanghai blogger Micah Sittig is getting married this year. He and his wife to be did the studio photos.The wedding photo album is actually a printed book. The photos are taken in many different costumes and apparently takes the whole day.   The photos are then placed into the album by designers and mixed up with quotes and statements of love and devotion (some are pretty corny). Its about 3,000RMB for the photos which includes the full day of photography, a big book to keep, smaller books for the parents and a small one to take to work to show off.

The wedding dinner is just like the reception in a western wedding. All the friends and family are invited to help celebrate the wedding. This is often held in the best restaurant that the family can afford. If the photos have already been done, then there will be photos of the happy couple in their wedding gear displayed at the dinner. One restaurant we were at recently was hosting a wedding, and at the entrance and inside the restaurant were 2 meter tall posters of the bride and groom resplendant in white white dress and tuxedo. At the dinner she wore a nice Qipao and he wore a casual suit.

The three phases of a Shanghai wedding are able to be interchanged, so no particular sequence must be adhered to. Some people can't afford the money to get the photos taken at the same time as the dinner, as such may have them done 1 or 2 years later.

In terms of it as big business, a walk down Huahai Road will yield you a wedding shop every 100 to 200 meters. A wedding shop is simply a one stop shop for bridal clothes, photography, make up, printing and everything else that is required to go to make the special day.

The 5 star hotels are also booming, with many having all their function rooms and restaurants booked out every weekend for the remainder of this lunar year. This was the case with both the Hyatt Huangzhou and Sheraton Nanjing. For the big hotels and restaurants, if its not booked yet, the price is about 50% higher than last year for the same dinner or function. (In this shop on Huahai Rd, the girl sitting down in the right window is a real girl. She sits there all day modelling wedding dresses. The picture is not so good because we took it through the window on a moving 911 bus).

The scale of the number of weddings happening is reflected in the fact that these photos of the 3 brides outside on the grass were all taken in the space of 1 hour in 1 small park in Pudong. Multiply this across every park in Shanghai on every day of the week, then you will get an understanding of the sheer volume of weddings taking place in this lucky year of the dog.

Comments

[Aileen]

Hello Brad, as I'm planning moving to SH to start a designer gown buz in summer/fall 2008, come across your blog. Wonder if you'r still in SH and how's it going in there now (Dec 2007). I personally been there couple of times but last time was Dec 2003 and things must hv changed so much especially the luxious items market, wouldn't you say so??? It would be nice if you could let me know your thoughts, also pls visit my site: www.Studio163.com
THX! Aileen

[Alejandra]

Hi!!! Please I need help!!!

I am going to China in March. I have planned to spend 3 days in Shanghai as I have already been there last year.

I want to buy my wedding dress there. What are the best places to get one, in terms of quality, design, etc.
Thanks very much!!

[David]

Hi Alejandra, I am no expert in this but these are two recommendations I found after some search.

"1) Bring your fabric and design (Chinese work better with pictures) to Chang Le road. They charge for 700-2000rmb per gown (after bargaining). That is also tailored to your size.

2)Lu Xiao Yu, a designer with his own studio just off of Nanjing West Rd. He's young and speaks fluent English.

His studio's phone number is 6258 0744. "

Disclaimer : I have not visited any of the shops before. Just word of mouth advices from other expats living in Shanghai.

[Alejandra]

Many thanks for your help David!!! Cant wait to be there!!!

[Survive your partner's affair]

Wedding in Chinese traditonla had always been a scared event but now people have started commercializing it.

[Kelly]

Hi Brad, I am planning a trip to Shanghai as well and wanted to take the wedding studio photos. Do you know where I would go and which ones are more recommended and any that speak english?

thanks so much

[AC]

Hi!

I'm also planning on taking some photos in Shanghai next year for my wedding, but it seems like it's so difficult to find Shanghai photo studios. The only place that really pops out is Paris, but is that the best wedding studio in Shanghai?

Across the waters, in Taiwan, there is Catherines but they are alot pricier.. just for the ticket it is pricey. Also, i rather stop in shanghai as i can make the gowns and suits here. Help is appreciated [email protected]

[Zuleika]

Hi, Just came across this site as I was looking to buy some wedding dresses to start a business in my own country.
I would like to know if the dresses are made of good quality material and well tailored. Do you know the answers to these questions? Do you any of the stores that supply to the USA?
Do you know if the stores in Shanghai have good prices for wholesale? Thank you. Zuleika.

[candra]

hi, we like to have 50th wedding anniversary on May 22 2011.Please tell me the street which have store selling chinese wedding gown.
And do we need to bargain about the prices? how many percent down for the price list?
there will be china international wedding expo in shanghai 23 feb 2011, do you think I would be better buying there than the stores?

Thanks

[wedding dresses shops]

Well Wedding in Chinese traditonla had always been a scared event but now people have started commercializing it...Generally I do not post on articles, but I would like to say that this article really forced me to do so!

[Don Yap]

Hi AC,

Regarding your comment on Wedding Photography Studios. There are many Chinese ones out there like you already mentioned.

You may want to try out alternative ones that are more natural and relaxed. I do some very authentic photos in Shanghai. Feel free to check out my work at: www.donyapphotography.com

Cheers and happy shooting! :)
DON

[Pete]

Hey! Would you mind if I share your blog with my facebook group? There's a lot of folks that I think would really enjoy your content. Please let me know. Cheers

[Adrien]

Hi guys,

In China pre-wedding photos are done before the wedding (like the name says) and are printed to be displayed on the wedding day. You can find many studios in China though most don't speak English and tend to lack proper service even in the higher end of the market.

Having worked in such companies, I invite you to visit my website and look at my photo samples : www.an-de-long.com